One week ago I joined an online herpes dating service, because the guy I contracted H from and I was still "seeing" disappeared again for the 3rd or 4th time (i've lost count), and I was tired of holding on to what little "relationship" I had with him (basically just physical).

My question is this, do you all think it is wrong of me to "put myself out there" like this? I mean, its not like I put on my profile "By the way, Im HSV positive." I've had some surprising interest, but Im hesitant to pursue anything seriously just yet because of the whole H thing. I feel like I may be deceiving these guys on the site. Its not like they are expecting someone with H to be so "bold" as to put a profile on a dating site.

BTW, my current guy resurfaced yesterday, and sometimes I think its just easier to stick with him since we both have it but it is so hard knowing it will probably never be more than it is.

Any thoughts? I've still not ever had to have the talk yet, and even though I've heard of some great results from others on this site, I still am afraid.